How do you go back to being close to someone you drifted apart with?

imageWe’ve all been there, I’m sure… you just clicked with this person, you saw them every day, you were best friends for years and then you went off to college and they went off to another. At first everything is  as it always has been, you talk everyday, you meet up all the time… But then they make new friends and you make new friends and sure, it’s nice to have new friends but it’s not the same and you can’t help but feel a pang of jealousy when they post pictures on  Facebook with their new friends captioned ”love her, my best friend”. You can’t help but think ”what about all the things we’ve been through and all the years we were best friends”? Eventually you barely talk and you try desperately to keep the conversations going but you have nothing left to talk about because you never see each other anymore. It is worse even when you’re in love with this person and you’re trying hard to detach yourself from them emotionally. So best friends come and go, you think you’ll be best friends forever but when you hit adulthood, you find yourself growing apart and if you’re in love with your best friend, it breaks your heart 💔 I’m aware this came across like the diary of a teenage girl but I’m 19, technically still a teenager so cut me some slack x


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